Friday, September 26, 2008
Knowing who you are...
this is a post to someone, some creature, out of NYJC, who has been pissing me and my friends off...
its ironic that people criticize others, when they themselves are probably worse.
it may be out of pure jealousy. others may have something, or are in some higher status, and the jealous ones just yada yada about how weird that person is.
hello! you are jealous. if you dont realise, let me sound it out to you.
if you are able to reach their status, you may not be saying things like that now.
and you wont want to hear people calling you names if you become some powerful person.
apparently, being a head above others, or being more capable than others, is normal. its not weird.
and before making comments about others, please do a reality check first.
people have plenty of friends, people are more sociable, people are more well liked, people are more accepted.
when that name of that person is mentioned, many people know who he or she is. people have a good impression of them, as a good friend, as a well liked person.
i'll be harsh. the same dont apply to you. continue to be in denial. i dont really bother.
but i'll step in when you go over my limits, and start insulting my friends.
or for that matter, insult me.
yes people may have nagative points too. but a perfect person is non-existence.
people may show their not-so-nice side at times, but they may not have a nasty thought.
it is so unlike you, being so big-head, thick skin, think the whole world revolves around you.
thinking you are more well accepted than others. hello look at yourself.
you're probably worse than others.
others, including the very few people that hang around you, may be too xiasuay to tell you this, but you really need to change, to be less critical of others, and learn to accept others, instead of badmouthing them, insulting them.
yes others may have bad points. everyone has bad points. including me. i probably have a whole christmas wish list of negative points i want to change. and everyone should be putting in effort to change, and be a better person. but by hitting at them, be in in the face or behind their backs, is not a nice thing to do. by thinking the whole world owes you something, thinking you're king/queen, is so immature. by thinking you have all the big fat rights to be critical of others, not considering the feelings of others, is so damn childish. it makes you less accepted by others. imagine if you enter the working force, you will be working with people from all different backgrounds. criticizing your fellow colleagues wont get you to be kept in the job. you can kiss your office desk goodbye.
when wanting to point out mistakes made by others, do let words go through your brain first. others may not be thinking, but by doing the same, you arent in a different league as them. by spoiling relationships with others issnt a very wise thing to do, considering the number of friends you have, one less is a lot. by staying so strong-headed, so pampered, so obnoxious, your social circle wont expand very big.
so mr steven lim, heard what i said? you really need a reality check, and a huge change. i'm eagerly waiting for the lawsuit, your whatever lawyer's letter. that's if you ever get one. i seriously doubt so.
You were with me till;
11:13 AM